EatCheapEatWell
  • Home
  • SHOP
  • Life/Budget/Household Stuff
  • Food and Meal Blog
  • About
  • Home
  • SHOP
  • Life/Budget/Household Stuff
  • Food and Meal Blog
  • About

How to Successfully Set and Meet Your Personal Goals

1/2/2016

 
Picture
The new year has arrived, and now that the parties and celebrations are over, it’s of course typically a time to re-evaluate aspects of our life and make new resolutions for the coming twelve months.

But I’ve learned the hard way over the years that it makes no sense to set dramatic, sweeping, overly generalized goals all at once that I am unlikely to meet. That’s a recipe for failure and feelings of guilt and personal inadequacy that nobody needs.

And that applies to goals you set at any time of the year, and not just New Year's. 
New Year's List
Like the example below. Except for the smoking part, I could have easily written it.  And chances are, within a week or two, I'd be failing miserably at these vague promises to myself. 

​I've discovered that I have greater success with meeting any goals I set when I make them measurable, attainable and specific, and then break them down into small, doable steps that move me incrementally towards the bigger objective.

Here’s an example of what I mean. Many people want to lose weight, but few people succeed at it. For starters, the target number for the scale is often unrealistic or even extreme, which sets them up for failure.

​But just as often, they set about it by drastically eliminating foods and calories, which leads to a sense of deprivation that is simply not sustainable beyond the short term. 

I recommend instead trying to ADD things to your routine or diet so that it doesn't seem like it's so much of an ordeal or hardship. Start with specific, small, daily changes and activities that you can maintain over the long haul that will help you accomplish the desired weight loss. 

​With that approach, you might make a to-do list on your first day that would include even just a couple of the following ideas:

Some Realistic and Achievable Goals for Starting a Healthier Lifestyle
  • Take the stairs instead of the elevator or escalator at work or the store today.
  • Park as far from the store as possible when I go shopping today.
  • Work out with light weights for 10 minutes today (I personally recommend Jorge Cruise’s book, 8 Minutes in the Morning as a great way to get started.)
  • Make and eat a salad with dinner today.
  • Add 1 serving of fruit or vegetable to my daily diet today.

Article continues below
Picture
This book offers a realistic approach to exercise for beginners that's easy to follow and implement.
You can see that each one of those is a simple, easy to follow task that can be crossed off a mental or physical  checklist so that it’s clear to see what you’ve accomplished at the end of the day.  

And if you’re a paper list-maker like me, you have the added satisfaction of taking pen or pencil in hand and putting a line through the items on your list as you finish them.

It really is a good feeling. And as we all know, success breeds success and tends to make us want to keep on going.

The Same Strategies Work  in Other Areas of our Lives, Too
​

The same practical and doable strategy applies when getting started on a household budget or trying to be more organized and mindful in your household meal planning. 

Don’t set yourself up for defeat by aiming for overly lofty, vague goals. It’s best to be realistic about what you can achieve and begin with small, achievable daily actions that move you in the direction of eating better and saving money as well.

Incorporate those mini-steps into your life until they are part of the routine, and only then consider taking on more ambitious steps.

So here are some suggestions for things you might include in your daily list to start:​

Article continues below
Suggestions for Some Achievable Daily Goals to Get You Started on a Food Budget - (Start with just 1 at first, and then add others as you get comfortable with the new routine.)
  • Pack and bring  lunch to school or work today
  • Make and carry my own coffee today
  • Pack a fruit snack for work today
  • Use cash only today
  • **Stop at the grocery store to get ingredients for dinner (see note below)
  • Cook dinner today
  • Make a salad to have with dinner today
  • Put leftovers away for another dinner/lunch today
  • **Plan dinner for tomorrow (see note below)
  • Make grocery list for tomorrow
 
…And so on.
 
**Let me say that the ultimate goal is to be able to plan menus at least a week in advance, and grocery shop no more than once a week. But if you’re new to the concept of cooking at home or creating menus ahead of time, it might initially involve short-term, day-to-day dinner planning and frequent trips to the grocery store, as well as the use of lots of prepared foods. 

       That’s perfectly okay as you learn the ropes. The idea is to create steps that are truly achievable and as painless as possible.


     So, if making several short forays a week to the grocery store and using things like pre-cut vegetables and/or pre-washed salad makes it easier for the newbie – or anyone else - to cook at home and avoid the budget busting (and often unhealthy) habit of eating out or doing take-out so much, then that’s a step I would definitely encourage as one that's moving you in the right direction. 

​        As time progresses, you'll find meal planning easier and easier - particularly if you follow the method I outline in this blog here and here. - and your trips to the store will become less frequent.  Eventually, you'll become a pro at meal planning and getting everything you need for the week in one go. 
 
Make Daily To-Do and Goal Lists a Habit in Many Areas of Your Life

One important thing in this goal setting list is that each item on it can be checked or crossed off when completed. This can be done in many areas of our lives beyond food and exercise, and can include things like school and studying, general budgeting, and job searches, etc.

Article continues below
Now, by virtue of our routines, a good percentage of our daily lists will be the same from day to day. However, I still recommend entering each item, since that helps contribute to a sense of satisfaction at the end of each day as we review what we’ve accomplished.
 
And as you see the positive results and gain confidence, your daily list might change once a week to include such things as, say, weekly menu planning and weekly grocery shopping sessions instead of daily ones.

​With just a bit of practice, you're now ready for that extra 
effort and organization and the greater savings it can mean. Menu planning templates, like the one below, can help.

And over time, your comfort level and skills will increase, until you're ready and able to take on more and more planning and cost-savings, in more and more areas of your life. 


But starting one day at a time with small steps and specific goals is a far less overwhelming goal to begin with. I encourage you to give it a try.  It's a proven technique that experts have known about for years.

I hope it works for you, too. 
​
Sample Menu Planning Template
A menu planning template -- just one of many that you can find on the internet.

Comments are closed.
    Follow Me
    Picture
    PictureMy "boys" and me

    The Author

    Hi, I'm Nancy Maje Gillis, and I hope to help you find ways to live more cheaply and mindfully to  help you get through this uncertain COVID-19 time  so that you have less stress and more money in your pocket.

    Archives

    November 2018
    April 2018
    March 2018
    February 2018
    January 2018
    December 2017
    November 2017
    October 2017
    September 2017
    May 2017
    April 2017
    March 2017
    February 2017
    January 2017
    November 2016
    October 2016
    September 2016
    August 2016
    May 2016
    April 2016
    March 2016
    February 2016
    January 2016
    December 2015
    November 2015
    October 2015
    September 2015
    August 2015
    July 2015
    June 2015

    Categories

    All
    -12 Kitchen Sanity Savers
    -20 No-Effort Ways To Save Big At The Grocery Store
    -2 Travel Hacks To Save Money
    -4 Basic Grocery Store Hints
    -4 Ways To Find More Savings In Your Budget
    -5 Basic Money-Saving Steps To Take Before Hitting The Grocery Store
    -5 Things To Consider In College Aid Offers
    -7 Simple Shopping Strategies That Save
    -8 Easy Ways Anyone Can Save At The Grocery Store
    -8 Tips For Budget Travel
    -9 Helpful DIY Hints
    -9 Steps To Finding A College
    -A College Degree For Less Time And Money
    -Adjusting To Life On A Budget
    -Benefits Of Eating Like You're Poor
    -Budget Basics
    -Budget Busting Bottled Water
    -Budget Eating For Good Health
    -Budgets And Peer Pressure
    -Budget Worksheet
    -Christmas Tree Watering Hack
    -Cleaning Products And The Environment
    -College Money Matters
    -Cooking In Quantity For Savings
    -Cooking Sprays - 4 Reasons To Avoid Them
    -Cooking Your Way To Health And Savings
    -Costco Savings Myth
    -Cut Utility Bills With This Easy Hack
    -Deli Department Savings
    -Dirty Dishes
    -DIY Yourself To Financial Independence
    -Eat Real Cheese And Save
    -Finding Ways To Pay For Your Next Vacation
    -Food Budget And Portion Size
    -Food Savings For Small Households
    -Frugality Pays Off
    -Gardening To Save Money
    -Healthcare And Our Budget
    -Helps For Getting Yourself Organized
    -Hot Weather Energy And Money Savings
    -Household Matters
    -How A Frugal Lifestyle Saved Us From Ruin
    -How To Build A Nest Egg
    -How To Choose A College Major
    -How To Save On Your Housing Budget
    -How To Stay Within A Food Budget
    -In Praise Of Peanut Butter
    -It's Not How Much You Earn That Matters
    -Keurig Coffee Pod Alternatives
    -Kitchen Gadgets Worth Owning
    -Laundry Savings
    -Lessons Learned From Mom And Dad
    Lessons Learned From Mom And Dad
    -Living Within Our Means Is Not Enough
    -Local Produce Bargains
    -Magic Sinks
    -Marketing Traps In Recipes
    -Microwave Hacks That Save Time And Money
    -Mom's Multivitamin
    -Myths That Contribute To Food Waste
    -On Gratitude And Humility
    -Organic Food As A Necessity
    -Parenting And Budgets
    -Pet Money Saving Tip
    -Pets And Your Budget
    -Pressure Cooker Introduction
    -Put Gas Money Back In Your Pocket
    -Romance On A Budget
    -Safe Food Handling
    -Save $668 Painlessly
    -Save On Your Wintertime Heating Bill
    -Saving BIG On Toilet Paper
    -Saving Money Is About Spending Choices
    -Saving Money On Wire Transfers
    -Savings And Opportunity
    -Saving Your Way To Financial Freedom
    -Savvy Grocery Shopping
    -Scams That Cost You Money
    -Snack Savings
    -Soap Savings
    -Starbucks Hacks
    -Successful Strategy For Meeting Personal Goals
    -Sugar In Our Food
    -Take-Out Food Alternative
    -Tax Savings
    -Tax Scams And How To Avoid Them
    -The 50-30-20 Budget Rule
    -The Real Cost Of Take-Out
    -Time To Rethink Those Holiday Traditions?
    -Tips For Sticking To A Holiday Gift Budget
    -Tips To Save On Fruits And Vegetables
    -Valentines' Day On A Budget
    -When We Have Too Much Stuff
    -YouTube Can Improve Your Bottom Line

    RSS Feed


Home

SHOP                              Life/Budget/Household Stuff               

              Food and Meal Blog             About                      

Copyright © Nancy Maje Gillis 2015-2025